The good news is this can be reversed once the relationship is over. Within a few weeks of ending my 12 year relationship with a narcissist, many people commented on how well I looked. Peering back ...

At the beginning of a relationship or friendship, narcissists pretend to respect boundaries. Because they want to draw you in and gain your trust. But gradually they push more and more. Getting you ...

Unfortunately, this is what many narcissists do to people. They manipulate situations to trap them into double binds. Where you’re damned if you do, and damned if you don’t. There’s many ways ...

It’s never easy cutting someone out from your life. And if you have functioning emotional empathy, it’s easy to feel guilty about it. No matter how destructive they were to you. Narcissists are quick ...

You’re Not Listening To Me In my experience, narcissists say ”You’re not listening to me”, when you’re not agreeing with them. You could be listening to EVERYTHING. And respond appropriately. But they ...

Narcissists often idealise their partners at the beginning. And treat them like they’re the most precious thing on earth. Then over time, they grow to resent, and even hate them. Why such a stark ...

Surround Themselves With Weaker People Many narcissists like to surround themselves with people they perceive as weaker. That way they can be the “alpha” of the group. And boss people around and feel ...

So rather than treat you like a person, they treat you more like an object. And the way people treat their car is a great illustration of this. Please don’t take this article too seriously. It’s a bit ...

Having been in a 12 year relationship with a narcissist, and now 6 years alone, I can catalytically say I’ve zero desire to return. I’m MUCH happier now. There’s many reason reasons why being alone is ...

With significant numbers of narcissist politicians, many governments are highly influenced by them. Indeed, some governments are led by them. Once you learn that politics is rife with narcissism, this ...

Narcissists LIKE people walking on egg shells. It makes them feel powerful, and it usually gives them more control over those around them. People in fear are more likely to do as they’re told. Most ...

Narcissists are impulsive, and don’t think through consequences. So they’re often blind as to how big a commitment children are. Preferring to focus on the adulation instead. Narcissists know that ...