To Feel Alive Narcissists clunk around in protective suits of armour. Shielding themselves from their emotions. Narcissists want to avoid pain, often because they’ve felt so much in their past. So ...

Narcissists LIKE people walking on egg shells. It makes them feel powerful, and it usually gives them more control over those around them. People in fear are more likely to do as they’re told. Most ...

Unfortunately, this is what many narcissists do to people. They manipulate situations to trap them into double binds. Where you’re damned if you do, and damned if you don’t. There’s many ways ...

At the beginning of a relationship or friendship, narcissists pretend to respect boundaries. Because they want to draw you in and gain your trust. But gradually they push more and more. Getting you ...

You’re Not Listening To Me In my experience, narcissists say ”You’re not listening to me”, when you’re not agreeing with them. You could be listening to EVERYTHING. And respond appropriately. But they ...

It’s never easy cutting someone out from your life. And if you have functioning emotional empathy, it’s easy to feel guilty about it. No matter how destructive they were to you. Narcissists are quick ...

Narcissists throw around compliments like confetti when they’re love bombing. And it’s easy to be taken in when you’re constantly told how wonderful you are. Compliments obviously feel good. And it’s ...

Narcissists often idealise their partners at the beginning. And treat them like they’re the most precious thing on earth. Then over time, they grow to resent, and even hate them. Why such a stark ...

The good news is this can be reversed once the relationship is over. Within a few weeks of ending my 12 year relationship with a narcissist, many people commented on how well I looked. Peering back ...

With significant numbers of narcissist politicians, many governments are highly influenced by them. Indeed, some governments are led by them. Once you learn that politics is rife with narcissism, this ...

Surround Themselves With Weaker People Many narcissists like to surround themselves with people they perceive as weaker. That way they can be the “alpha” of the group. And boss people around and feel ...

Narcissists are impulsive, and don’t think through consequences. So they’re often blind as to how big a commitment children are. Preferring to focus on the adulation instead. Narcissists know that ...